Those who have been in a long-term relationship could agree that being in a long-term relationship requires us to reconvene with our partners to establish new rules for the relationship.
It’s nothing bad you guys but here’s the thing: it can be very challenging if the communication is not giving.
I think as time passes we start getting used to how things are and how they stay for a while. And people get bored and I mean, how can you blame them??
What I meant to say, is that relationships are tough, but if you’re willing to do the work, the new and your partner are doing something great!
Ask yourself first if you want to keep and improve the relationship! Because you’re both about to make some changes.
I think it is fair for both individuals to make specific requests from the other, after all that’s the person the want to impress.
And if they accept, then they are taking the challenge to ensure the relationship works.
Now, you may not get all of your demands; but if you do, then it seems the other really wants to make things work!
Remember not give into anger or substance abuse. Thats a recipe for more trouble.
Also, remember that your partner is also grieving and sometimes serious conversations can easily turn into an argument.
Josh Monsoon 